WE MUST NOT VIEW A SOUL MATE AS SOMEONE WE CANNOT EXIST WITHOUT!

"What is not learned in each lifetime is carried over into other lifetimes, along with new lessons that arise for the soul to learn, new karmic obligations that result from the responses of its personality to the situations that it encounters.  The lessons that the soul has learned also are brought forward into other lifetimes, and this is how the soul evolves."  GARY ZUKAV

Before going further to describe those which I consider my Soul Mates, I wish to take this time to clarify a few things.
These are to my knowledge the four most powerful souls in my life in recent years.  The Universal Mind as I have said is much more advanced than we in human form could imagine.  It does not think, nor operates as we do here on earth.  It performs with perfection beyond our comprehension.  Which brings me to these points that I wish to express to you. 
It is a much more complexed thing than meets the physical eyes as to how these soul mates relate to my life.  We must understand that our soul mates are not only "rescuing/supporting" us during our journey, but WE too are making a tremendous contribution in return to them... Some of which will be made clear to us while here and some things will not.... Some of them will tell you how you have made changes or constructive contributions to their life in the process.  (Some will not.  Some of my own have told me my contributions to them and I feel blessed by their informing me.  Some have not to my knowledge? BUT, fear not!  It is not necessarily important that we know everything at the moment.)
I told you earlier that you would also be able to identify some of your primary soul mates.  Some of the methods you will need to use are Deep Meditations and as I have OBEs.  There you will begin to "see" them and know exactly who they are in your present life as well as possibly in past times.
Identifying factors will be some of the following:  They will seem very, very "familiar" to you.  Your mind must be wide open in order to recognize these things!  Do not mistake all relatives as soul mates.  Or boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, etc.  Do not mistake co-dependants as soul mates.  They depend not only on you, but ALL those around them, and are not aware of these negatives.  Most of these human beings from observation, you will notice have no "true goals" during their journeys.  They are only seeking to acquire as much material gain as possible. (We have sometimes referred to them as "Party Animals") They are angry and resentful towards not only you, but those around them.....they hover over what they believe "belongs" to them as if their entire life "depended" on them or it.  In other words, they begin to smother the life out of those around them due to their unconsciously being aware of the fact that they are destroying and thwarting the journeys of others, be they easy or difficult.
You will recognize them by their lack of individuality.  Most are talentless and have no real personal goals in life that are not materialistic in nature. They begin to seek out those who have that which they desire and hopefully by placing themselves in the constant company of these human beings, some of their gifts will rub off onto themselves. They have forgotten their "initial purposes" for venturing here to this planet.  They cannot live in this life as being their own physical created realities, but rather go from day to day having the determined belief that all and everybody "owes" them!  All of their LOVE given or shared is dependant on how much they can expect or get back!  The mistakes of these souls are repeated indefinitely without knowledge.  (This immediately brings to our attention WHY many if not most of us might have to continuously "return" to class!)
You and I can discern our true Soul Mates, not from one another necessarily, BUT, from the Universal Mind during Meditations and also from Prayer.  We must be patient and we must listen and we must be ready to accept THE TRUTH!  The truth is difficult sometimes for all of us to accept.  But we are given many opportunities to rectify our situations in order to receive and accept it.
For I have learned many things during my OBEs about how our EGOS will definitely become tremendous obstacles in achieving this successfully.  My higher self during these times has always made it clear to me also, that JEALOUSY also causes us many of our limitations on achieving these things.  It is one of the obstacles that will stand firmly in our way of moving forward and definitely will give us a ticket to our own "repeat performance!"  By the way, many of us, cannot and will not conceive of these drawbacks.  We will only strike out at those who would even suggest such a thing to us.  Test it out.  Confront some human beings with their obvious display of EGO or JEALOUSY and you might even loose a friend! (Or even a close relative?)  Aahahaha!
Find some of your true SOUL MATES.  I promise you that it will be a wonderful awakening!  We discover that we are definitely not alone on our difficult journey here on planet earth.  There are others whom have chosen to accompany us and attend many of the same classes.                                                          More later.........

LOVE AND LIGHT!
Marshall